Sweet Christmas cards for your brother

A sweet card for your brother works because it is rare. He does not expect it. Say one true thing about the years, keep it brief, and do not apologise for it afterwards. He will say 'cheers' and mean much more.

6 things to write inside

Swap in their name. Change anything that doesn’t sound like you.

  1. sweet [first name], you are the person who knew me before I had a personality, and you still turn up. Merry Christmas. I mean that. Love you, mate.
  2. sweet [first name], merry Christmas. Thank you for every time you had my back and never mentioned it afterwards. Proud of you, mate. Love, your brother.
  3. sweet I was thinking about us as kids this morning, and how you let me tag along even when you did not want to. Thanks, [first name]. Merry Christmas.
  4. sweet Whatever happens next year, you are in my corner. That is not going to change. Merry Christmas, [first name].
  5. quiet Merry Christmas, [first name]. Glad you are my brother.
  6. quiet [first name], thanks for being around. Happy Christmas.

Questions people ask

What should I write in a Christmas card to my brother?

Write what you would say if you were not embarrassed. One dig, one thank you, and a reference only the two of you get. Brothers usually reply with a joke and mean the same thing, so you do not need to overthink it.

Is it okay to send a rude Christmas card to my brother?

If you two already roast each other, yes. Keep it affectionate and aimed at something he can laugh at, like his taste in music or his parking. Avoid anything about a real sore spot, such as a break-up or his job.

How do I make up with my brother in a Christmas card?

Keep it short and honest. Say you miss him, say Christmas made you think of him, and leave the door open without going through the whole argument. A small, plain note often does more than a long apology.