Christmas cards for your daughter

A daughter notices everything, including how long you spent on the card. She will read the front, flip to the inside, and decide in about a second whether you actually wrote it yourself. So write it yourself, even if it is only a sentence.

Choose a design that fits who she is right now, glitter phase, dinosaur phase or too-cool-for-glitter phase included. Add something only a parent would know: the song she sings in the shower, the way she narrates her own day, the fierce little opinions. Send it as a link, schedule it for Christmas morning, and let her open it before the chaos starts.

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10 things to write inside

Swap in their name. Change anything that doesn’t sound like you.

  1. sweet [first name], you are the best part of my year and every year before it. Merry Christmas, my darling girl. I love you to the moon, the stars and back again.
  2. sweet Merry Christmas, [first name]. I love how you see things, and how you tell me about them in great detail. Never stop. I am your biggest fan, and I will clap loudly.
  3. sweet Dear [first name], thank you for the cuddles, the stories and the glitter in my hair. Home feels like home because you are in it. Lots of love from me.
  4. sweet [first name], I hope today is full of laughing, cuddles and too many treats. You make our Christmas, and our ordinary days too. Love you, always.
  5. funny Merry Christmas, [first name]. Thank you for the nine hundred questions, the opinions on my outfit and the commentary on dinner. I would not change a thing. Except maybe the volume.
  6. funny Dear [first name], you have not stopped talking since February and it is the best soundtrack I have ever had. Merry Christmas to my favourite narrator.
  7. funny [first name], I have checked, and yes, it is allowed to have chocolate for breakfast on Christmas morning. I am the parent, so I made the rule. Merry Christmas, sweetheart.
  8. quiet [first name], I am so glad you are my girl. Merry Christmas.
  9. quiet Merry Christmas, [first name]. I am proud of you, every day, in every way.
  10. quiet [first name], you are loved, exactly as you are. Love from me, always.

Questions people ask

What do you write in a Christmas card for your daughter?

Say one specific thing you love about her, then tell her you love her. Maybe how she laughs, how she stands up for her friends, or the way she sings to herself. She will notice the effort, and a few true lines beat a page of general ones.

Is it too late to send my daughter an e-card on Christmas Eve?

No. Pick a card, write your words and send the link, then it arrives straight away. Or schedule it for Christmas morning so it is the first thing she opens. Either way, you have time.

Can my daughter open the card herself?

Yes. It arrives as a link and she opens it like an envelope on a phone, tablet or computer. For younger girls it works well to open it together, with you reading the inside line out loud.