Christmas cards for your granddaughter

A granddaughter will treasure a card from you in a way you might not see until years later. She may keep it in a shoebox with the shells and the drawings, long after Christmas has packed up. So write it for the person she is becoming, and for the one reading over her shoulder.

Choose a front that suits her current favourite thing, whether that is ballet, bugs, books or something she explained to you in detail on the phone. Inside, say what you love about her and what you remember. Schedule it for Christmas morning, and let her mum or dad open it with her.

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10 things to write inside

Swap in their name. Change anything that doesn’t sound like you.

  1. sweet Dear [first name], you are one of the loveliest surprises of my whole life. Merry Christmas, my darling girl. Lots of hugs from your Nan or Pop.
  2. sweet Merry Christmas, [first name]. I love how curious you are, and how you tell me everything. It makes me very happy. I am so proud to be your grandparent.
  3. sweet [first name], I think of you every day, and especially at Christmas. I hope your day is full of treats, cuddles and fun. I love you to the moon and back.
  4. sweet Dear [first name], thank you for the pictures, the cuddles and the long chats. They are my treasures. Merry Christmas, sweet girl. See you soon.
  5. funny Merry Christmas, [first name]. I have been practising my dance moves for you. They are not good. Please be kind when you see them. Love from your embarrassing grandparent.
  6. funny Dear [first name], I have hidden the good chocolate where your mum will never look. I will show you after lunch. Cross your heart and say nothing. Merry Christmas.
  7. funny [first name], you are so clever that I now ask you how to work the TV. Merry Christmas, my little genius. I will pay you in biscuits.
  8. quiet [first name], I love you very much. Merry Christmas.
  9. quiet Merry Christmas, [first name]. You are always in my heart.
  10. quiet Dear [first name], I am proud of you, always. See you soon, sweet girl.

Questions people ask

What should I write in a Christmas card for my granddaughter?

Say something warm and specific. A memory from the year, a thing she said that made you laugh, or a plan for next time you see her. Then tell her you love her. She will remember that you noticed, more than the exact words.

Is it all right to send a granddaughter's card to her parents?

Yes, and it is often the best way. Send the link to her mum or dad, schedule it for Christmas morning, and they can open it with her. She gets to hear the inside message in a familiar voice, which is half the pleasure.

Can I send one card each to several grandchildren?

You can. Pick a different card for each child, write a separate message inside, and send them one at a time. That way each grandchild gets a card about them, not the same one with a different name on it.